DO TAKE SOME TIME AND READ THIS.

I hope we won't make a mistake that this woman made.

I am not trying to scare you or anything like that,
just hear me out. I'm currently going through tough
times, those of you who are close to me knows. I am

not trying to make up this, it truly happened to a
close friend of mine. You may or may not believe it
but the truth is it happened or its happening to be
precise. There are lessons to be learned
here just take time to read this little few passages
they might save your life or a friends life.

My friend has been married for 5 years now. They have
a
2 year little daughter just like me. Like any other
couple they do have their ups and downs, any way
that's life. One day just after they had a fight over
differences of opinion, the wife was doing her normal
shopping at their local mall, when she met her long

time varsity ex-boy friend. After a chit-chat, she
discovered that he is doing well for himself and he is

running quite a few tenders under his company. They
exchanged numbers, from that day they started talking

over the phone until plans were made to meet but
how?

That's when the varsity boyfriend came with the plan
that they should meet in Cape Town to spend a week
together. She had to lie to her husband and claim she

is going to work conference at the Cape Town for a
week. Which she did and her husband took her to the
airport on a Sunday. The ex-boyfriend had
everything organized; the plane ticket and a nice
beach holiday resort for both of them to enjoy.

She left on Sunday evening to Cape town and arrived 2
hours later to a very romantic evening with her
ex-boyfriend. After the evening romance they made
love but without a condom, off course they have known
each other for a long time she thought. For the next
days to come they had such a jool/ quad biking, cable

riding. wining and dining at top restaurants and
cafe's, something she hardly do with her husband. They

enjoyed everything money can buy until she left on
Saturday back to Joburg. They had to use different
flights to avoid being seen together (u know people
talk).

She was waiting for her husband to come and fetch
her when she received a call from her ex-boyfriend. he

told her that he was HIV-positive and the whole
thing was not a co-incident when they met at the
mall. The reason why he infected her with the desease
was because he was jealousy of the family she has
and the beautiful woman she has become and the fact
that he was financially successful but he is not
happy
because he knows that he is dying. At that moment she
just stood there and froze. Thinking what do I do now

because it was already too late to take
anti-retroviral even if she lay a charge against him,
it will only be but to expose herself for cheating
her
husband.
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That's when she quickly took a taxi to her friends
place. She told her friend everything that has just
happened and ask for advice. The friend told her to

come clean with her man and tell the truth, anyway she

has just lost everything and nothing to lose anymore.

Which she did over the phone.

To my surprise even today. The husband went to fetch
his wife at her friends place, he sat down with her
and
told her how much he loves her and reminded her of
the
vows he took at church with her and that it was a
terrible mistake she has done which unfortunately she
has to pay with her life. He told her that he is
never going to leave her, he has
forgiven her and he will stick by her side no matter
what comes. Off-course she had to stay in another
bedroom and he had to share the bed room with their
little daughter.

What's currently happening is that, the wife is
terribly sick she might die anytime. He told me this

because he was asking me for prayer support) because

he believes as a group of friends praying together,
the stronger the prayer might be. And the other
reason was that I should let u guys know of such
happenings as a warning to those who are contemplating

cheating to weigh if its worth it! As I sit down and
think about this experience, I thought to my self:
why him? But I can not seem to come with an answer.

Then it stroke me that maybe there are lessons
here;"
You never know what you got until....". The morale of
the story being, As people (human beings) we turn to
undermine those
who love us for a moments pleasure( we are never
aware
that we are loved). We keep on chasing
waterfalls rather than sticking to the rivers where we

can swim...............